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Absolute Bliss,
A Woman's Guide to
Relationship Happiness
This 295 page book was published in Canada, and a revised
version of it in e-book format is available here at
Pentad!
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What is love? What is it that we attempt to satisfy by this
experience?
Put aside thoughts of people walking around in the thralls of
procreation, bombarded by a sea of oxytocin. Oxytocin, the mammalian
hormone and neurotransmitter that plays a role in social
recognition, and bonding. Neither is it necessary to discuss the not
so new, yet recent evidence that we humans may be more genetically
similar to the monogamous animals in our kingdom. Our cultures
setting the scene by defining personal success as partnership,
"coupleness", and religion historically lending its two cents.
Our biology is an inescapable fact, and from an observational
standpoint, one might argue that when two people initially feel
drawn to each other, it indeed looks like the beginning steps of an
intricate, and biologically primitive dance. Although, some may not
wish to see the beauty in this perspective. When the bottom line is
hit, we are neither only nature, nor only nurture. We are an
intertwined whole. Our biology does not make the story any less
romantic, or less beautiful. We are also privileged with the
cultivated ability of complex thought. It is not of interest to this
post to argue how this came about. For if we take a step back and a
look around at the larger picture, it really does not matter. It
just is, and this is where we are here and now.
In our wholeness we are social beings. Yet, neither is our
sociability a problem in itself. It too just is, and it is
universally human. Interplaying our detailed biology are the
attempts to satisfy something which we term, love. When we indulge
in this dance of love, we are indeed within the realm of our social
needs. When we wish to maintain or fix relationships in terms of
longterm commitment, this becomes the arena of our endeavors.
So, what is it that we wish fulfilled?
It is a simple matter, and the 'what', is to share our lives with
someone in unconditional acceptance.
"There is an underlying need to belong in our search for a
partner. Underlying this aspect of belonging is the need for
unconditional acceptance. It all boils down to that we want a
partner that will forever accept us for who we really are".
(Tamera Daun. Cosmopolitan, Norway, 2005)
Heard are complaints that partners are not satisfying the needs of
one another. Our needs are not the problem. They are shared, and
they are bonding in their universality.
Food for thought until next time.
Be well, Stay safe, and
warm regards,
Tamera Daun
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